I’m Joy Edwards, and in October 2010 both mine and my family’s lives changed forever. On this morning my son, who was 8, walked into the twins’ bedroom and discovered his baby sister Leah entangled in a looped blind cord.
I ran into the bedroom, raised my daughter to try and slacken the cord and untangled her. The ambulance was called and paramedics soon arrived and took over CPR on Leah.
The ambulance and paramedics took our little girl and we followed after in a police car. When we arrived at the hospital I knew straight away the news was not good as there was a security man outside the room. Watching too many Casualty and Holby City programmes you learn the procedure.
Leah was so cold and the colour had already started to drain from her tiny face. I willed her to wake up; she was never a very good sleeper and all I wanted her to do now was wake up so I could take her home to her siblings and twin brother. The hardest thing I have ever had to do is tell her brothers and sister that she wasn’t coming home.
Our last photo of our daughter was in the September when she had her first ice cream. It’s a photograph we will treasure.
After her death I decided that it would not be in vain and was determined to raise awareness about the dangers of looped blind cords.
When ROSPA called and asked whether I would help with their campaign, I agreed without hesitation – well, wouldn’t you?
ROSPA is a charity which relies on fundraising and charitable donations to raise awareness and prevent accidents. Without donations they would not have been able to give away thousands of free cleats and safety packs to raise awareness and educate families on the dangers of blind cords.
They also campaign on risks around the home and the dangers of not wearing seat belts in vehicles, to name just a couple of things.
Accidents occur on a daily basis and many can be avoided. Through raising awareness I hope the number of accidents can be reduced dramatically.
When I received a phone call to say I had been nominated for a RoSPA Guardian Angel Award I was out walking and I felt like I had a huge grin across my face. All I thought of was “I am just a parent. Yes we had a terrible tragedy, but an award? Surely anyone in the same situation would do the same.”
When I start something I tend to carry on to the end. Even though new blind standards and regulations have been brought into force for manufacturers and fitters to adhere to, there is still more to do. Parents and grandparents who already have blinds in their homes still need to be educated on the dangers.
I was honoured on June 17 to be given the Archangel Award and was amazed at the standing ovation I received.
This is my first award and it has pride of place in our living room. Each time I look at it, opposite there is a photo of Leah smiling. I would like to think that she was proud too and that her death has prevented other families from going through the same heartache.
- If you know of someone with an inspirational story like Joy, or someone who has worked tirelessly to improve the safety of those around them – whether they are a colleague, neighbour, friend or member of the community – we’d like to hear from you. Why not nominate them and show them just how much they are appreciated.